You ever had a relationship when the other person complains about everything you do? All day you hear questions “Why did you do that?” Why did you do it like that” Why did you think that”… Blah, blah, blah.
If you are in a relationship with someone and all you do is complain about what they do and how they do it, why be with them? A relationship is supposed to bring positivity. Each person is supposed to bring some type of positivity to the table. It the table is full of negative plates, the relationshrip will go no where.
My suggestion is if you have a problem with the person you are with there are three things you should do. 1. Tell them what you think is wrong along with a solution. If all you do is complain and bring out all the faults with no solution to fix it, you are doing nothing but nagging and irritating the other person. 2. Leave them. If you can’t find anything good about the person why be with them. If all you can find are negative things to say and nothing positive, just leave them alone. That person is not for you. Or lastly, 3. Shut up. My mom always taught me if you can’t find anything nice or positive to say then don’t say anything.
I just have a problem with someone telling another person what they don’t like. Instead try to find the good things. If there aren’t any then why are you with them? Are you with them because you are afraid to be alone. Do you hold on because you want to hold them back from being happy? Why hold someone back from their full potential of being happy.
Negative thoughts bring a negative attitude. Be positive.
~Am I N_My_Write_Mind?